time ago ', reading a book entitled "The sky is looking for you" (quoted in the list at right) that I find much in line with the principles on which my own work, I have compiled a set of guidelines I then hung in the kitchen, so potermelo read every day. Each of these sentences, to be repeated almost as a mantra, it contain a very powerful and I thought maybe it could be worthwhile to share and comment.
1) EVERYTHING THAT HAPPENED AROUND ME HAS POSITIVE EFFECTS ON THE BACKGROUND. This statement, at the outset that it surely does not turn up their noses and triggers a series of objections, on closer inspection is a profession of faith "total". A faith that even a step further than is commonly understood religious (and I mean that Catholicism is the only confession that I can say I know), because this is not to accept negative situations or painful events deferring to God's solace but to be able to "see" that there is nothing that happens that is truly negative, that is bad in an absolute sense. The vision is radical: it means in practice is that whatever happens, from the personal level, the local context and all the world ... "has a positive effect," that contributes to the evolution of the universal soul (God) as it is was - or how - meant. On the way back to the One, for us all, like it or not, consciously or unconsciously, there are necessarily infinite duality to solve, and these occur on all levels: in the lives of individuals, stories of entire peoples, stages of the planet ... All that we perceive as undesirable or even as terrible - wars, diseases, deaths, crimes, injustices, periods of crisis, disorder ... - thus not only its raison d'etre, but its indispensable place in general mosaic of whose existence we would do well to remind us constantly, but because too often we live our lowly concentrated on square meter. Broadened their view - with this kind of faith - you can not say to understand (because of faith still is) but to realize the many meanings and many possible constructive developments of events that are normally considered bad luck. Hard to get into the details of the countless examples ... but as of now anyone can try to put any of the undesirable situations of their life under this "slow" to understand how it all turns. Not that all of a sudden the pain is less certain events that act as natural human reaction, but the knowledge that these are just the shell that encloses the seed of a new achievement allows us to look with different eyes and ... that cause us the pain will fade much more quickly.
always deliberately write in a broad and general, just to let everyone that comes has to come ... but, yes, I'm saying (also) that if we laid off, or get a disease, or our country goes down the drain, or our partner leaves us, or a girl is murdered, or an earthquake swallows a city, or a madman detonates a nuclear bomb ... the events (before which we certainly is right to take all the measures that we believe that adequate human) are not in actually negative, or rather, they will still have "positive consequences on the big picture." Obviously this requires, first a much less individualistic than it normally and then we have a great and firm faith. And that is why this first phrase of the Decalogue, as well as being the most important and comprehensive, it is also a prayer, in the truest sense of the word, that does not mean "ask for something," but "thank always trust (faith) is that everything is already perfect as is. "